Why I Need Someone to Punch Me in the Face Ryan Derfler · August 29, 2017 “Let a righteous man strike me—it is a kindness; let him rebuke me—it is oil for my head; let my head not refuse it. ” — Psalm 141:5 And if you want scientific evidence that this is essential for you, watch this sermon by my pastor, Paul Anderson, where he uses the Milgram experiment to make the case.